The Week Of The Signs From The Universe

This Week

• The signs from the universe I’ve been getting this week.
• How and why I felt different at the networking talk.
• The questions and energy I’ve been trying with people.

July 2025

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Where In The World Was I?

• 🇮🇩 Canggu (Bali, Indonesia)

Metrics From The Week

Snaps From The Week

Photography

Dinners and nights out

Nights out

Networking/Talk

Cafes

Gym/fitness

Pics with friends:

Work

Finally got back behind my laptop this week. Wrote my first Life Update post after missing the last 3 weeks of posts.

I went to Zin Cafe one day and did some quick journaling before meeting someone who I connected with.

202507081130 What's most important right now

#journal 

Morning. Just starting to get back into working on my laptop.

Some interesting things developing that I want to capture.

I've spent the last like 4 weeks taking a break from working, doing a lot more socializing and networking and going out ([[202506270837 The learnings from taking a break from working in Bali]])

Last night I went to The Bench with [name] and [name] and randomly met this guy [name] for like 5 minutes. Had a VERY quick conversation with him, he asked what I do, and was like wait do you have Instagram that's exactly what I need, how much do you charge?

And I'm meeting a guy today in an hour who I was connected with through [name] who's interested in talking to me about YouTube.

And I'm meeting a guy tomorrow who I met at Give It All about YouTube.

I'm seeing this as a sign from the universe that it's time again, that I'm ready. I don't think the answer is pushing still in any way. Also, let's see what happens, if any of these become clients or just stay as conversations.

However, this didn't happen a couple weeks ago.

So let's run with it.

What else should I be focusing on?

I'm thinking we get back into YouTube as well, in this context from [[202506191348 Journal - What's Next]]. I feel like my energy is different now. I don't exactly know what it'll look like but I at least want to be back on to be in the space to give the foundation for how I'm helping people with YouTube. Maybe I'm not on there going hard, but I at least want to be on there.


So the question is, if I could only "work" for like 4 hours a week, what would I do?
- Networking, social events, sauna -> my lead gen
- Fulfilling for clients, helping people with my existing YouTube system I made -> delivering
- Making videos myself -> giving value (fulfillment), dogfooding (building credibility)

[continued below...]

Abundance Mindset

So I met with this guy who was a connection from someone else I met last week to chat about YouTube.

I had zero expectations going into it.

But things started to shift about halfway through as I started to think, “hmm, I wonder if he’s actually interested in what I have to provide as a paid service?”

The topics went from what’s working on YouTube, to what does he need to do/provide as part of my service and how much I charge…

But I did NOT push, I held the whole Dan Bolton style of frame: If you want what I have and are ready, I’m here, if not, I’m here to help you.

And eventually just asked him, “is this something you’re interested in?”

And he went “yeah” and explained that in 1-2 weeks when he dives deeper into YouTube he’ll reach out.

My maybe second ever sales “conversation” and maybe the easiest sell I’ve ever had.

Such a belief shift for me because I have FEARED selling.

But there’s absolutely something to this abundance and “pull not push” mindset I’m learning from Dan Bolton.

202507081130 What's most important right now

#journal 

[continued...]

UPDATE 4PM: HOLYYYYYY SHIT BRO
- So I just met up with [name]

We started off just talking YouTube, but started to get deeper and deeper. He started to ask more about my service, what I offer, things like that. I just focused on giving as much value.

But I started to think wait, I wonder if he's interested in what I do as a service.

And I did NOT push. I kept the Dan Bolton frame, just give value, I'm here if you want.

He asked what he gets, what he needs to do, and eventually like what I charge if it's high ticket.

I said $[price]/week. 4 weeks. We re-assess and see where we go from there.

There was a long pause, we both drank water, he asked another question.

Paused, I asked, is that something you're interested in?

And he went "yeah" and explained that once he does his 7 day challenge and wants to dive deep into YouTube he'll reach out.


I felt SO confident and just abundance. Was I nervous? Yep. But I just kinda made things up as well. Oh yeah I worked with a french channel coach and turkish guy (not saying that they were free work)


SIGN FROM THE UNIVERSE BABY. It doesn't even really matter if he flakes. Just the fact that this just happened is FUCKING MASSIVE.

LET'S GOOOOOOO.

Signs From The Universe

As I noted in my journal entry above, there’s no way this is NOT a sign from the universe.

I’ve been so much more open to signs from the universe in the last maybe 6 weeks and I’ve thus also been seeing so many more signs.

This conversation could’ve happened at any point over the last 6 weeks. It could’ve happened when my laptop died.

But it didn’t.

It happened on the second day back behind my laptop.

Socializing

Energy

Telephone

ARTE

Tribal Talk

I went to a Tribal talk this week from a guy I met a couple weeks ago. He also asked me (among a handful of others) to lead little breakout groups and lead by sharing vulnerability first.

It was kind of interesting how this changed how I approached the session.

Instead of sitting in the second or third row where I might normally, I sat right in front.

And when he asked for any volunteers to go first sharing what they struggle with to the group (it was like 30-40 people!) I raised my hand less than a second after he asked.

I look back on this talk and moment and see myself differently.

I wasn’t a listener.

I was part of the talk.

And thus I was needed.

I was needed for my leadership and vulnerability (that was very explicitly established from the message I got from him beforehand).

I became a vessel, a vehicle, to help other people open up.

And so I acted in accordance. I saw him up there speaking not alone, but I saw myself with him, supporting him.

So when he asked for any volunteers, fear was not an acceptable response. Courage was the only option.

And when we broke out into groups, I was a bit surprised because I ended up sharing about as deep as I’ve ever gone and it was with 2 people I hadn’t met and 2 people I had met just as acquaintances here.

If I could describe or capture this night in a word(s), what comes to mind is: purpose and meaning.

Part of the session was talking about your goals and why you want them.

202507111011 My ultimate life goal

#journal #personal 

I said something like:
- Living a life where I get to make a meaningful impact on other people's lives.
- Helping people who are struggling mentally in some way (finding passion, purpose, clarity, struggling to take action, working towards their goals).
- Because I can see unrealized potential in others and I feel the pain other people feel, I've become attuned to all the excuses.

And I realized later that this has nothing to do with Wealth (what I said I'm struggling with right now, out of Wealth, Health, Love, Fulfillment).

## Context
Said this as part of the workshop yesterday from [name] about getting what you want.

Coffee

Openhouse

Bored

I run the same exercises every workout (push, pull, legs) and have honestly been getting a bit bored of making Instagram story videos from the same angles.

So one day I just said fuck it and rotated my video upside down. Then the next just cropped them randomly on the screen.

Because well, why not? 😂🤷‍♂️

Keeps things interesting, ya know?

And now that I write this and think about it, I think this situation is something like:

I’ve reached the creative stimulation limit of my environment (particularly the gym) and so thinking about a new way to present the same thing is re-stimulating my creative expression.

I also kinda just stopped caring about presenting a “perfect” brand (through Instagram stories) and I’m starting to see this space as just a place to play and have fun.

And again now that I write this, I think there’s a lot of useful life lessons in that.

Emotional Wreck^2

Other Thoughts From The Week

Fun questions to ask people

I don’t remember how we came up with this but I was joking with a friend a couple weeks ago about something, maybe energy and women, and came up with this question as I kind of ‘ah fuck it’ mentality

“If you could be any fruit, which fruit would you be?”

And I started using it on people and it’s actually been a fantastic playful conversation started.

So I ChatGPT’d to brainstorm some more. These are the other ones that I’ve used so far:

• If you had to describe your week as a pasta shape, which would it be?
• If the universe sent you a kitchen appliance as a message today, what would it be?
• If your energy this week was a smoothie flavor, what would it taste like?

Teasing and playful energy

I’ve been trying to work on expressing more playful energy in conversations.

I see my gift in depth, in listening, but as I’ve gone through the last 2 months, I’ve learned that there’s two types of energy:

• Heavy energy – deep conversations, emotional vulnerability, life, thinking, coaching
• Light energy – laughing, playful, teasing, smiling

And so a lot of conversations I get into end up going deep, but they also require a lot of thinking, presence, and energy.

But I’ve realized light playful energy actual gives me energy.

So I’m learning not just how to mirror this, but give it (or channel it, if you read last week’s post).

What’s Next?

Heading to the other side of the island for an event!

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